When someone loves Black & White - can they provide colour and light

In our dreams, we do often project the most vibrant scenes full of colours. This might lead us to believe that the best moments in life are when all colours are in play, and that we should target a rainbow like life as our main objective
Nevertheless the most rewearding moments in life often come when you live your life in black & white. Not meaning that it should just be at the two extremes but how to get the most our of the grey shades in between that represent far more colours than the basic colours of the rainbow.
Having played around with photoshop and pushed the magic "Black & White" button, and new perspective from above opened up. When applied to your expectations of life, it is easier to enjoy life when your basic expectations are set in black and white.
When looking forward to a glass of white bubbles, a dark hand collecting white ashes, some dark wine enjoyed in a dark jacket sitting by a white table after sun set. Imagine the setting and then let the human interactions in the forms of small smiles, great comments, serious thoughts, a nice song, words of peotry and some cooking adding the colours to the picture.
Many great persons set their life expecations in colour and take the full spectrum of colours for granted as an everyday thing. The great ones set their expectations in black and white, love the black and white perspective on life and get rewarded when the human interactions is the spice that bring colour to an ordinary day.
And you should search for people in your neighbourhood that loves black and white, they are likely to be the strongest sources of light and coulour that possibly could be brought to your life.